Sadly the original
author of this site died on 12th July 1997 aged 63. I am
maintaining this site as a tribute to a remarkable woman,
who lived life to the full and left this world with so
much still to do
Mary's sudden and unexpected death, after a short
illnesss, was received with shock and astonishment by all
who new her, it seemed as if she had always been there
and that she would go on for ever championing the rights
of disabled people, and helping them in many ways. Few
people realised how disabled Mary was, least of all Mary
herself.
Only a week before her death she had been interviewed for
a position on a Health Trust. The panel were surprised
when she turned up in her familiar electric wheelchair,
they did not believe that someone with such severe
disabilities could have done all of the things which Mary
put in her CV. This was what Mary wished for, to be
looked at as a person, to focus on her abilities and not
her disabilities.
Her abilities were many. She seemed to be a natural
chairperson, chairing not only the Council of Disabled
People for many years, but also at various times, the
Women's Health Network, the wheelchair users group and
most recently a sub committee of the CHC. She was a
natural representative too. elected onto the Community
Health Council, The Joint Health and Social Services
Consultative Council, The Transport Users Advisory Group,
the Ring and Ride advisory group, The Police Consultative
Committee
She was active on management committee's too. The
Coventry Law Centre, where she had started as a
disability rights volunteer way back in 1982. The
Unemployed Workers Project, and for many years until its
demise the Coventry Resource and Information Service.
Tributes have poured in from all of these groups, most of
them remembering her warmth and good humour.
She was known outside of Coventry for her work on RADAR
as the voluntary representative for the West Midlands. It
is at a meeting of this last group that she was taken ill.
It is typical of Mary, that not knowing how ill she
really was, she struggled through the meeting, despite
fighting for breath all the while.
Mary would not have wanted it any other way. Although her
life was short, she packed a lot in. People may have seen
her about town in her four wheel drive electric
wheelchair the squirrel what they would not know is that
on her holidays she would take this up rough unsurfaced
tracks, over fields and even half way up Mountains, this
was the stuff she was made of, unable to rest for a
moment if there was something that needed doing.
It took it out of her, she had rheumatoid arthritis which
effected all of her joints, to the extent that she needed
a possum to control the electrical devices in her home,
and the computer. She was in constant pain. but it was
not the Arthritis which killed her. She also had Asthma,
and at times she was so short of breath, that she failed
to take it seriously anymore, even though she knew it
could one day kill her. In July her luck ran out, and we
all lost an irreplaceable person.
Mary Arnold died of simply being Mary Arnold and having
done the work of most ten Women *1
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